The Power of Sexual Confidence

Sexal confidence is all you need to develop to attract the opposite sex. You can be a confident man and you will attract woman once in the while. But when you reach the level of sexual confidence you become irresistible. There is nothing a woman can do when you are in this state of mind, because the choice was already made for her.

 

Why some men are considered the sexiest people alive?

 

Of course there are many reasons for that but there is always a comum thing about having sex appeal. All you can see is their attractive looks, but do you know that only 20% of your sex appeal is physical appearance and 20% is intelligence? So what is the remaining 60%?

Two words: Sexual Confidence.

 

You don't need to be the smartest guy in the room or having the perfect body, all you need to cultivate is your sexual confidence. Yes, sexual confidence is attractive itself. People with a strong sexual confidence, exude an infectious energy around them that invite people to come in. This carefree "vibe" make woman wonder about them. Their eyes speak their adventurous wild side and a confident smirk exudes an aphrodisiac sense of humor. They are natural magnets as they find easier to get what they want in life and people like to be around them. Sexual confidence have the ability to free woman from their lust, sexual fantasies and fears about thinking of sex. When you reach this confort of your own sexuality and your sexual intentions people around you feel safe and free.

 

When women look at those men, they can’t tell you exactly or define in words what it is. They just say, “He has it”. It’s that inexplicable feeling about someone that make woman gravitate towards. It’s the same thing when you see a Lamborghini pass by. This is the perfect exemple of an exclusive product on the market that everybody wants to buy or have a piece of it. Their irresistible charm and sexiness make everybody love it and want to have a ride.

 

How can I develop sexual confidence?

 

Without this level of confidence you can become sexual invisible to the oposite sex. Sexual confidence is a feeling about yourself. So what you have to do is develop a feeling of being desirable to the oposite sex. It’s something that one feels on the inside, but when projected on the outside it’s extremely seductive and rare. When you are 100% clear and authentic about yourself, fully embracing your values, emotions and sexuality, you naturally change the chemistry of your body which allows your sexual energy to flow freely into your body.

Begin to place new beliefs about yourself. Again, mindset is the key to develop that sexy edge that all women want. A feeling is the result of a chemical produced from a thought, so if you place different thoughts into your mind all your body chemestry will answer in a different way. When you start to think differently about yourself, on how desirable and sexy you are, your vibration changes, and what you attract into your life changes.

 

You need to go back to your past experiences and find out which beliefs about your sexuality were accepted by your subconscious. Much of your sexual confidence is depended on how you were raised and how open minded you are towards sex. How your parents introduced you to your sexuality, how religion could have affected you and how shame you have towards sex is a key to understand what your belief system is processing. Some of the sexual problems start right away from the beginning of interaction with our genitals, the feeling of guilty about masturbation and the interaction of the opposite sex.  Much of our sexual confidence comes from accepting our body and seeing it as a desirable to others.

 

Second, walk slowly around your place naked and feel your sexiness and natural sensuality. Feel your skin and your feet on the floor when you walk. Think of yourself as a powerful human being, or an animal or someone that you respect or fantasy. Let your body take over the entire space and tell yourself that you own it. Bring that hunter and wild side of you by taking space and "occupying your territory".

 

Stop and look yourself to a big mirror for a long period of time and appreciate each detail of your features. Feel proud of yourself and your body. Develop an inner smile, by smiling to different parts of your body through your mind. If you want, you can begin this process by putting a music that makes you very emotional. Expressing emotion when you look at yourself is essential to record vision of yourself into your subconscious mind.

 

The next time you enter into a conference room, a club or any place remember the feeling that you have felt with this exercise. The more you practice, the more this feeling will become natural to remember and you will be able to switch on and off any time you want. When this comes a second nature to you, you will see how others stop and notice you. Assertiveness of mind is what make others react to you and gravitate towards you.

Best,
L

5 Beliefs That will change your dating Life Forever

On the last post I discussed how important it is to have the right mindset to achieve your goals. The mindset is the foundation of becoming great in anything in life. When you are clear about what you desire and give total energy and dedication, you will attract whatever you need to achieve it. People, circumstances will show up in your life to match your internal beliefs. Your brain always makes sure that your external world matches your internal world. It’s kind of mystical and magical how it happens, but is an absolute law.

If you want to attract constantly woman into your life there are five cores beliefs that you must assimilate. When you call someone “a natural” with woman, that kind of individual that without saying a word is able to drawn woman to him, he must have clear in his mind those beliefs and principles:

• "Wherever you want there is abundance everywhere". It’s going to be always a girl for you everywhere you go. When you have this belief you don’t look for, because it happens to you all the time. It’s part of your lifestyle to meet woman everywhere you go.

• "Remove any negative thought about someone that has what you want". You cannot become someone that you don’t like. If you want to become a lady´s man you have to admire men that are great with woman. Most people when are in front of a “playboy” or a guy that have a beautiful woman in his life usually envy or have regrets about that.

• "You don’t need what you want". What you desire, does not define you as a man. For you to be able to get what you say you want, you must be willing to give up anytime. This principle is important because when you embrace it, you are telling yourself that what you want is coming no matter what. You can walk away easily when you are about to get it because it does not value you as a human being.

• "Wherever is you want, don’t care if people think the opposite of you". Be able to accept the opposite of what people think of the person you want to be. That principle is fundamental for you to reinvent yourself and move forward to the person you want to be. When you have woman in your life and people ask you or think that you are gay or a virgin or why don’t you get just the one girl, just smile and know who you are and what you want.

• "Whatever you want, it wants to come to you". You don’t have to go outside to get what you want. You just have to open the door and get it. When you think like that, you know that you don’t need to do much to get what you are looking for, you just have to get out of your own way and go get it.

Best,

L

Having the Right Mindset

The amount of woman that you have in your life or how successful you are in the opposite sex is a reflection of your believe system. Believe it or not but thought the way we thing we are able to attract or repel the things we desire. Building the right mindset to be able to attract naturally woman is the key to success.

Mindset is the internal software that is required in your brain, which makes you perceive reality in a certain way. Each one of us has a different perception of reality based on our past experiences, assumptions, values and believes. It’s like we are hypnotized with all of this internal stuff that make us weak because we see barriers instead of possibilities. All this baggage back up all out behavior, decisions, actions and most of all, influences our results.

This internal loop is poison that feed itself, because you keep doing the same mistakes over and over again expecting a different result. If you want to change your results, change the way you think first and the way you look at things.

It’s important for you to understand your core beliefs about woman and remember who make you believe it.

If you want to make real changes in your life, you first have to change your internal thoughts. Success in any area is the result of eighty percent psychology and twenty percent action. So if you want to be successful you have to recognize the beliefs that are holding you back and substitute with new ones.

I have the ability to right away understand why a man is not having woman responses, through the way he think. How a man speaks about woman and about himself makes me understand immediate if he is getting laid or not and what is the problem. Most of the times I don’t even have to listen him to know that he is invisible to woman. Our body language, our presence, the way we speak and gaze verbalize our internal state and says so much about ourselves.

Changing the mindset it’s a slow process but changing always happen if we feed your mind with a clear vision every single day. How you do that?

Understand what kind of person you want to create inside. Write down all the characteristics and believes of this new personality. Create a compelling vision that is so compelling that your thought become more real than anything else. Visualize as much as you can every day as you already are the person you want to be. Back it up with proper affirmations though the day. Maintain a positive and expected attitude.

When we hold an idea, independently of the circumstances that exist outside of ourselves, of our body, and time and space, greatness happens. The physical world always answer to our state of being, and we suddenly start to see measurable results into our lives that back up our internal state.

Best,

L

What most dating coaches lie about

Most of the dating coaches out there usually have the common thing to say: “get any girl you wanted”.

This is completely wrong thinking and actually a marketing lie, and I will explain to you why.

I have heard about websites that promises the last attraction formula, a scientific proven method, etc. What they are doing to you is sending you far away from what you want.

There is no magical formula on the market place to attract “any” woman, because attraction is not a choice. When a man and a woman look into each other´s eyes, on the first ten seconds, the attraction is there or is not. Simple. Real attraction cannot be faked, the only thing that prevent two people of being together is their own minds.

If there is no attraction between two people when they first meet, you can change the way she perceive you by changing your state of mind and playing with her emotions on the run. Although is a slow process that never guarantees total success. What it does is increase your potential of being successful.

The reason is that everyone have a sexual imprint, which contains a unique set of features that naturally attract or repel us sexually or erotically. Subconsciously we scan on the first seconds each person the moment we see, hear, smell, and touch someone. The closer the person match our imprint, the more intense the feeling of attraction we experience. Sometimes two or key variables are enough to give us that feeling.

As the whole attraction process is stored deeply in our subconscious, it means that you can be attracted to a particular person but if you don’t match the person’s imprinting, you won’t be attracted to that person, does not matter how hard you try.

Thus, what is out there is a way to bring out the best within you that you have been hidden all your life and increase the number of matches and open yourself to new possibilities and clean the vison. Yes, most of the times, a woman are attracted to you but you don’t even know, understand or think is possible.

The true is that being great with woman is simple self-development on your own. Attraction is not a choice but being an attractive is a choice. You have every single day the choice to being attractive or not to be. Believing or not, woman are a by-product of you being great with yourself. That is an inner work that only you can do by each single day.

Success is made of little steps that you do each day, by creating a little ritual. Changing will start immediately the moment your subconscious accepts new believes. Your life can dramatically shift if you really believe on your core, that you are a sexual desirable man and that the woman that you want and deserve wants you. That will increase your changes with women and you will start to see through the matrix things that you never though were possible. Even that, the mindset increases the probabilities and the diameter of attraction around you, but is not “attracting any woman”. So, keep work  on yourself and get more matches.

Best,

L

Sexual Vampirism

We live in the world of the immediate. A world of fast food. Nobody wants to wait for the meal, people just want to satiate their hungry for some days. The increasing number of members in dating websites like Tinder, Badoo and Match show exactly this point: loneliness; neediness; desperation; pretension and lack of self-confidence and sexual approval.

Everybody wants to be loved even if is just for a couple of hours.

This new technology offers us a menu of woman for any tastes and which we can easily make a take away directly to our private place. It’s definitely an easy way to get sex without paying. Whatever you want: sex without attachments or a relationship, there are tastes tor them all.

People normally want a relationship, without having a relationship with themselves. Without connecting to yourself you can’t wake up the interest and the mysterious in others.

The Vampires are a category of man that think and act like predator. They look for sexual approval everywhere they go, and even if they are not fully attracted to the woman, they just go for the shot. Without any principles and shame, vampirism happens everywhere. You don’t have to be an expert of people behaviors or a psychologist to see through the matrix those guys that go out simple to accomplish a mission.

There are mainly four types of vampires: The invisibles, they are usually lonely creepers that scare woman around and make then don’t even acknowledge then. the pursuer, they are too forceful and approach every woman in the dancefloor to get sexual approval and attention. The vultures, they patiently wait for the last hour of the night to take advantage of the drunker women or the desperate ones looking for a man to sleep.

The thing is, a high quality woman smells a man in 50 seconds or less. They test man with their gaze all the time because they are tired of the creepy pursues that want something for them. Their intuition is so high that they can tell if a man is having sex or not. They can see through your eyes if you want something for them or not. I would say in a profound way that woman can read your vibration and your thoughts.

Again, a woman doesn’t want a man in a mission. A woman wants a man that is able to enjoy himself at anytime and anywhere. They want to meet a fun, playful, genuine, authentic and carefree person that have a life.  When you show up as these guys everywhere you go, people will gravitate to you and woman will naturally show attraction to you.

Best,

L

A New Way of Being

The phrase “the natural” is everywhere in the seduction market. All over the place seduction gurus most known as “pick-up artists” used this term to exemplify the way of natural attraction between man and woman. Everybody wants to become “a natural” those days, and not worry about techniques and routines. Most seduction books, dating websites and romantic movies try to best describe the experience of somebody who “naturally” have the power to attract man or woman effortless.

The thing is, being a natural is a state of being, a certain mindset that create certain result, which is something far away from: a technique, routine or action. There is a big difference by “being something” and “doing something”. Is quite difficult for somebody that is “a natural” to put in parts what he or she does to generate attraction to the opposite sex. “A natural” would say to you: "well, I don’t know, it just happens to me". Some would assume that is some natural ability that you were born with, which you can have. Although If you want to fully grasp what’s this means, you have to go deeply in the core of believes the person have, which influences the reality around him.

That’s why is so difficult to understand for most people when a certain guy have always woman around him everywhere he goes, without he is "trying". The true is we all “naturals” but we just don’t have the knowledge to bring that out. What are preventing us to become what we want are the negative thoughts, consciously and unconsciously, that pop up in our own mind every time we are in a front of a woman's presence. We are like natural magnets to woman, and the more “clean” this channel is, the more people we naturally attract.

But, what is about this “natural” that is so appealing? And why so many people are interested those days in naturally learn the right skill-sets of attracting the opposite sex?

Normally, when people read about seduction, a game of pretension, manipulation and enchantment is always associated. In any teaching there are always certain actions we have to do to catch the attention and make the other person like us. This game of seduction is insincere and unfair for one of the parts. There is always a need to take advantage of somebody.

This art of seduction it’s normally a “convincing game” that uses charm and manipulative ideas to develop self-doubt and emptiness inside somebody’s mind. Once the victim feels uncertain about herself, she becomes weak enough for any type of exploitation.

Is there any other option far away more interesting and healthier than this, which brings pleasurable, intimacy, and passion with another person?

There is an attractive way of being that will bring pleasurable, intimacy, passion, love, trust, friendly and happiness with another person. This personality is the core of everything. Activating the internal sexual magnet that we have, is all I want to bring you about. I will show you how you can cultivate along the time, such a sexual presence within you which in return will create magic moments with the woman you want.

Best,

L

Alter your Reality

What is real?

We perceive reality according to what we believe is true. Each one of us has a different perception of reality of what we feel is true or possible. It’s like the brain perceives reality through different filters, and each one is beliefs, values and past experiences.

Beliefs equal reality. Simple as that, but sometimes so difficult to grasp.

So if you want to change your results with woman, you have to begin to change those beliefs or “interior filters”.

Those believes are paradigms that are preventing you for achieving the results that you want in your life. Those paradigms are located deeply into your subconscious, and being reinforced every single day by the same thinking, the same decisions, the same actions and the same experiences.

To change those paradigms you need to substitute with new ones. How you do it? By repetition of the same information over and over again every single day. You need to convince your subconscious that you are not the type of person you use to be. If you want to affect the exterior reality, you have to change your personal reality.

The way you think affect the energy around you and automatically how people perceive you. So when you change your thinking, the energy that you radiate  changes and what you attract will change.

These principles apply for those who want to attract and connect with woman in a deeper level.

Begin to write down a list of believes that you have around woman in a page. And find out what is negative and wrong about it. Question those believes. Are they real? Or some of your friend just told you that? If you can’t understand what those believes are look at your results in life, what they tell you? Or simple walk on the street with a note pad and register all the thoughts that come to your mind when you look to a girl or simple pass by.

The first step is finding out what those believes are and turn them into affirmations.

When you find out, begin to write down the opposite of this in another page.

Before sleeping and after wake up, reflect on those list. Go to any mirror and say out loud those affirmations with great emotion as you were living it.

Best,

L

Hello Readers!

Their readers,

I am starting a new blog because fundamentally I want to be able to help you to reach the success that you want around woman.

This blog is for men who are interested to attract woman on a natural way without any effort. We usually hear about the ‘natural’ concept on the pickup community, but in fact they don’t fully understand what it is to be a ‘natural’ with woman, but on the other hand they all want to become and break down ‘the natural’.

There are a lot of dating coaches at the moment in the market place. In fact the number of coaches around the world is increasing probably each day. Although, I still see so many misunderstood in the seduce community which made the man look weak and awkward around woman.

With this blog, I introduce you a new way of seeing the world and yourself. I will give you the guidance and support to start to change your perception of reality and perceive a different world around you. By changing your thoughts, you change your world and what you attract into your life. If you want to know what you are thinking unconsciously about woman, see your results. Your results are a perfect match, a blueprint of what is taking in side.

I guarantee you that don’t have to be the best-looking guy in the room or the type of man that the woman says they want to attract them. When you become this “natural man” that we are talking about, the choice will be made for them.

Being great with woman is nothing but self-improvement on your own. And like any other area of your life, success always comes from 80% mindset and 10% action.

With my experience on observing and coaching guys around the world I understood patterns and core believes that prevent them to create attraction and connect with another human being on emotional level. By reprograming the mind and understanding the core believes and behaviors of what a sexual desirable man must display, the results are fantastic and almost scary.

 

Best,

L