Express your authentic self

When you meet someone physically attractive, you must understand that is just somebody, nothing else. Most guys feel extremely needy when they meet a hot woman and immediately start to qualify themselves to them by talking too much and trying to project something bigger than they actually are.
Well, all you are doing in the eyes of the other person is this:



“Take me, I am yours”

or...

“You should be my girlfriend”.

Only if a woman is too desperate or haven’t have sex for months that will take you home. Although the next day you will not hear about her or she will look for something better through the days.
Now, if you want to have in your agenda high quality women, you have to understand that you need to behave in a different way. Separate yourself from the crowd and play the lazy game as I cal. Let the others do the work for you and lay back on your sofa and expect her calls. When you don’t do what others do, you don’t have any competition.

Listen,

You don’t know anything about the person you first meet, so why you should put so much pressure on yourself by trying to think or do too much? She can be a great person but also a trouble one or even a prostitute as well. So, wait till you really understand what is the situation and stop coming across needy or taking her too seriously. Understand that you are the “prize” that she can have or not and you know what you have to offer her.

Ask yourself anytime you feel that she is superior and you feel the need to qualify to her: I know what I have to offer you, what do you have to offer me?

I am not saying that you need to come as a huge ego and make her feel that you are intangible. No, put always a woman as equal as you. All my advice is based on expressing your true self and let your authenticity as a man show up. Express all the things that are uniquely about you and go with the flow any time. You don’t need to think about what to say or do, you just have to let your unconscious being do the work for you. You don’t need to change your attitude when you meet somebody new; in fact all you have to do is being present and make the other people feel that they have meet you years before. Threat others as they are your best friends and they will open themselves to you. When it comes to women that is the key for true connection and building a great chemistry. When they feel that they have meet you before, look what you are giving to her, the feeling of that “was meant to be”. Everything that is natural is like faith on her eyes .

Women love a man that is 100% authentic and sincere about them. If on the first time you meet a woman you express unconsciously that two qualities you can have everything from her. Does not matter if she is as a great boyfriend or married for twenty years, authenticity mixed with sexual confidence are the keys to unlock woman’s mind. When you make a woman feel that she can trust you, because you are not hiding something and at the same time you are being comfortable with yourself and your sexual feeling, you can have women emotionally and sexually open to you.
I can’t tell you how many times a woman just told me her sexual fantasies or her dark secrets just because I was honest with myself when I was meeting her. After twenty minutes of conversation she will start to say ” I don’t know why I am telling you this”. She can be in a relationship with somebody she loves, but that does not matter that she will open to that person.

Generally, a women never forgets the first time she meets an attractive man or an interesting one, even the years passed by, she will always remember how someone make them feel. Some married women told me that they still remember the first feeling the man they are currently married gave them. That’s why you must work on yourself first and look at your best and be prepared for the unexpected, because you don’t know when “that girl” will show up. Is always on the unexpected spots that you never though you would meet someone that great connections happens.

L