Stimulate her Reptilian

You can be the nicest guy in the room. You can match all the needs on a women’s list. You can meet all the archetypal qualities that a woman says she wants in a man.  But if you don’t talk to her reptile brain, she is gone.

What is the reptilian brain?

If fact you have three brains and not one. The reptilian it’s the oldest one and is the part that doesn’t think or rationalize. The only thing it pays attention is: survival, feeding, self-maintenance, social needs and reproduction or sex. In addition to this, it is also responsible for controlling your automatic bodily functions, such as the beating of your heart, the breathing of the lungs and the regulation of the body temperature.

The reptilian does not know the difference between the imaginary and the reality, and it works through pictures. That’s why when you see a porn content, it instantly activate a trigger in your brain that is expressed in your body as an erection.

We live in a society that is controlled by subliminal images. The use of sex or erotic images in commercial campaigns is one of the tricks that the market uses to compete for our attention or to influence our behavior.  If you want to eliminate the competition around you, you have to stimulate the reptilian.

Without this understanding, the triggers that you are exposed everyday will influence your thoughts, behaviors and the false illusion of control. If you are not aware what is doing to you, you will live a life based on unconscious drive.  

In other words; if you are not aware of those triggers inside of yourself; when you see a beautiful attractive woman, your brain put you in a trace state. Thoughts of sexual approval, dominance, submission and aggression will start pop up.

Have you ever met those people that when they walk into a room, you become emotionally affected? You don’t know what exactly it is; it’s a vibe or a type of charisma that ones have that influence your physiology and the way you act in from of them. It’s like you were hypnotized by somebody without conscious thought. That’s one of the reasons that does not matter what you say or do.

One thing is what women say they want, other thing is what they emotionally respond.

I don’t care what women say they want or look at a man, when you store her emotions there is nothing she could do about. Normally she will say to you a “programmed answer” based on society and culture. She will go to Dr. Phil or Oprah and will say that she wants a really nice and caring guy but when she leaves, she will contradict herself and be attracted to a different one. This one has the ability to play with her emotional and irrational side of her personality. The mysterious, adventurous and dominant males always stimulate those triggers in her reptilian brain. When you show how your life is exciting and make her wonder what comes next, she will do a mental picture of herself with you.

We live in a society that tells us that there is not enough for everyone. That makes us believe, that is the woman that has the power of choice over man. We were raise to believe that we must do all the things to please a woman in order to make her like us. We constantly struggle and feel insecure on the first date with a woman because we just think about sex and pleasing. We resume all our lives in a single conversation because we have afraid that she doesn’t choose us or don’t have a second date.

Of course there are other factors to generate attraction. In a preview post I talked about the sexual imprint that each one carries around, or a blueprint that influence how much we match other person’s list and feel attraction. The closer the person match our imprint, the more intense the feeling of attraction we experience. Sometimes two or key variables that resonates with us are enough to give us that feeling.

Woman love emotional spikes, that’s why they choose the dramatic ones.  Give it to them.

The secret for being attractive is not what you do. The secret to being attractive is the feelings that you install and create in other people. Stimulate the reptillian and change your results with the woman you want.

L