Reflect on those points and apply to your daily life till they will become a habit or a second nature. Is when it becomes effortless to you that your life will begin to change immediately. For real change you need to alter your state of being, you have to lose your mind a get a new one and become something else. When you think differently and be in that state of mind for a long period of time you alter your state of consciousness which your external environment always give feedback.
In a couple of months you will need a telescope to see where you where before!...
Take responsibility
To move forward in your life you have to accept your current situation. Stop playing the role of the victim and play full responsibility. Most people spend their entire life attached to a past that doesn't exist anymore or avoiding the present moment by placing their happiness into the future. If you want real change in your life you have to accept things as they are and not as you wanted to be. Close your eyes take a deep breath and accept your life as it is right now. Always see every past situation as a teacher. A great life has always a great renunciation attached.
Move forward
According to the previous rule your past is a mental concept, a psychological time that give you lessons, so put it behind your back and start living. To live fully the present you must be willing to forgive what happened to you in the past and move forward.
Be away from the game
Being great with women is a byproduct of you being great with yourself. Don't try to change women, change yourself instead. Because the best man you can be and you will notice how other people will answer you. Spend more time alone working on yourself, your values, passions and believes before wanting desperately to get laid.
Find your purpose
Never put any women as your priority in life. So many men put women on a pedestal and forget about what make them happy and make life worth. If you haven’t find your purpose in life go figure out right now. A woman loves men that is fighting or have a sense of mission. Actually she doesn’t want to a man’s priority, she want to follow him instead.
Be in the moment
Live in the moment requires practice and awareness. This point is extremely important when connecting with women on the emotional level. They feel you when you are present and listening. Being in the moment requires shutting down all the crazy nasty thoughts that distract you from the now. When you are talking with somebody this person must be the most important people in your life.
Love yourself unconditionally
How do you want to love somebody is you don’t love yourself? This one is the key to become a magnetic person and having everything you want in life. Loving unconditionally is understanding and being aware of your virtues and flaws. When you fully accept yourself, you walk, feel and speak with a different energy that is very attractive. So be comfortable in your own skin and give up of trying to be perfect. When you love yourself you respect your body and choose really careful what thoughts you want to feed your mind. Build a relationship around you and women will want to be part of your life. You really attract love when you love yourself.
Build self-confidence
Ask any women you want what makes her feel attracted to a man and they will say: Confidence. Then ask her what is confidence, and she won’t know what is that. That is because confidence is a projection of a feeling, an attitude that somebody has which sometimes people confuses with arrogance. Confidence is itself sexy and attractive to the opposite sex. Is that unexplainable attitude that someone has that makes others gravitate to you naturally. People naturally respond to someone that knows where he is going in life. When you project this feeling of “knowing what you are doing” your body language is usually relax and fearless, which make other people surrender to you and follow your lead without question it. When it comes to women that is very pleasant because they feel secure and trust you. Women want a man that makes her relax from all their insecurities and pressures.
Be a risk-taker
Never settle for less. Being in a comfort zone can be a dangerous spot to be. Any successful people have to challenge himself to get something out of life. So stop watching TV at home and playing video games all day and go after what you want. The real champions are made on field and each day is a perfect day to change the destiny.
Be authentic
Why you want to be as anybody else? I see a lot of people nowadays trying to be someone that they are not, instead of expressing their authentic self. One thing is being inspired by someone; other thing is being a copy. In this infinite Universe, you are a unique and authentic being that have a limited time to express itself, so express it. Be that man that is the same when nobody is watching. Don’t live behind a mask and start to express your greatness in everything you do. Be congruent of what you think, say and do.
What others people think about you is not of your business
If you got this one I guarantee you that you will increase your sense of freedom and happiness. Repeat this affirmation all the moment " this is my life and I am going to live it the way I want to". What matters what people think about you? What other think can’t distract yourself from your reality. Always remember that nobody can affect you, only if you give yourself permission. Is not what they say to you, is what you say to yourself when they stop talking.
Love what you do in life
This one is obvious, but a lot of people still have afraid of following that. When you love what you do in your life you vibrate in a different level. Follow your inner voice and find out your passions and you will project excitement and inspiration to other people. If you can make a living with what you love to do that is a perfect match. Be willing to spend time about thinking of what you love to do and go do it.
Be adventurous
Live your life as an adventure. Become the most interesting person you know. Have stories to tell others before you die, and make yourself an inspiration for those who one day read your story. Women love story tellers because they picture themselves as part of your adventure. Being adventurous is being unpredictable and expressing a spontaneous attitude at any time. Is breaking the rules and uncover that primal energy inside of ourselves.
Practice makes perfect!
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